Alert the media! Long-forgotten dreamboard manifests handsome prince!

 

The very next thing to drop out of the sky and into my world was a life-sized puzzle piece which looked suspiciously like a man with a genuine smile and cute dimples. The stars aligned and I manifested a very beautiful relationship. No thought process necessary, just relax and enjoy the ride, that’s what happens when two puzzle pieces meet. What a unique and unexpected turn of events.

And he says, “Now that I’ve found you, I can’t imagine spending a day without you.” Among other cool things. Like, “I’m the luckiest man in the world.”

Which is exactly what we should be lookin’ for.

But the real thing we should be looking for, which I accidentally found, is the feeling that what you just naturally do fits what another person just naturally needs.

And you don’t have to take advanced classes to pass this relationship’s final exam. It’s effortless.

Not in the traditional sense of the word … without effort … because it does require effort, mainly in the form of open-heart communication and radical honesty … but the things-flow and I-can-breathe version of that word … the magical word  e f f o r t l e s s  and all the space that allows around you and how calm and peaceful it makes you feel and the smile it puts on your face because you can just relax and BE.

Because being fully Col is a beautiful thing.

~ by gigablonde on October 23, 2007.